Hump Wednesdays: Popular Female Sex Fantasies

If you want to learn the quickest way to a woman’s heart (or her pink feline), knowing what makes her warm and wet in all the right spots is one of the best places to start.

For women, what turns us on goes beyond you simply sticking your wand in her hole. A dominating factor in sexually arousing a woman stretches beyond the physical. We could be tickled in just the right spot, but if we’ve checked out mentally, don’t expect any floodgates to come a-flowing.

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Hump Wednesday: Popular Female Sex Fantasies

For most women, great sexual satisfaction comes of fulfilling one’s sexual fantasies. In order to reach the point of nirvana, however, one must feel comfortable with their partner and trust them. The more comfortable a woman is with you, chances are she’ll be more trusting of her fantasies with you.  For many of us females, talking about and enacting our sexual fantasies can be very therapeutic and helps free us from the social guilt, shame, and sexual dissatisfaction we may feel for our deviant sexual thoughts, and replace them with feelings of empowerment. 

If you long to please your lady friend, and have mind-blowing sex, I kindly suggest you open your mind to some of the most popular female sex fantasies listed below. (And not just the FFM… all of them.) If you have the right partner, participating in such fantasies could be quite liberating. Free your mind.

Getting Caught

The possibility of being caught can certainly enhance the mood. It’s not that we want the whole world to know we like drinking our man’s protein straight from the head, but knowing that at least two strangers know kinda makes us tingle. The same principle applies to others hearing you have sex. The perv inside you can’t help but say, “I want you all to know I’m dripping right now.”

Put On Display

When you get caught doing something naughty, the question then becomes, “Should I stop or keep going?” Unless it’s her dad walking into the room, I say keep going!  If you don’t know the person who has caught you, then who cares! Out of sight, out of mind.

A couple can also toy with the idea of one partner watching the other partner please themselves, preferably the women. If it’s the dude pleasing himself, sorry, I can’t help but picture gay porn. Having a man watch a woman play with herself is arousing for an array of reasons. For one, most women aren’t naturally that comfortable in their skin– even supermodels feel fat and ugly sometimes– but if a woman feels comfortable enough to let a man watch her play with herself, that right there is pure sexual hunger, exempt of the social norm’s BD.

Group Sex

Whether your lady friend will admit it or not, chances are she’s dreamt of being sexually active with more than one person at a time. Whether it be in the style of an orgy, FFM, or MMF… bust out the lube and get the party started! I don’t necessarily condone group sex, because of safe sex reasongs, but there’s absolutely nothing wrong with fantasizing about them.  

Sometimes a woman just wants to be sandwiched between two strong men (or women), and dream of the idea of being stuffed from every direction. If your lady dreams of including another man, do me a favor boys, don’t shut her down! It’s her fantasy, not yours. She may not be that into the FFM fantasy you are so particularly fond of, but she plays along anyway because she sees how hard it gets you. It’s actually very simple: if it feels good for a man to fill you in the front, and it feels good when a man pushes through on your backdoor, surely the two of them together must be absolutely amazing! 

Strangers with Candy

Having sex with a stranger is exciting because it adds an element of the unknown. This person you make up, they can be anybody. They are truly the faceless man of your dreams. If a woman’s husband or boyfriend doesn’t care for backdoor love, this man can be that person. He can mentally seduce her dirty thoughts while you seduce her physically.

This component can be mixed in with other fantasies to add a twist. Say, for example, a woman may fantasize of a man catch her going down on her boyfriend at a nightclub, only for the man to close the door behind him and join in, the woman tasting him too. (But I digress. I don’t want to get you too excited now!) Or perhaps another woman, whom you watch go down on your man while you play with yourself…talk about satisfying!

Adult Entertainer

If you are open with your female partner, then chances are she knows you love adult entertainment. It’s always fun to pretend you are a part of that world, either as a stripper, a porn star, or a high-class girl. These definitely aren’t the kind of women you “bring home to mom” and such stereotype can bring a lot of uninhibited action into the bedroom.

This also falls along the same lines of fantasizing with a stranger, where, in being a stripper you can seduce a man who don’t even know, and you’re the one in control.  Giving him a private lap dance, where you can feel his manliness poking your cheeks when you rotate your buttock on him, but not allowing him to touch you back. That’s one power trip that will leave a ladie’s undies nice and damp.

(Some women get-off on the idea of being paid for their services, as it also makes them feel control and dominating. This isn’t one fantasy I’m particularly fond of, but then this is from a person who thinks facials aren’t degrading but getting paid for sex is. Go figure.)

Dominance and Submission

Dominance and submission, whether it be whitebread or something a little edgier like S&M or BDSM, also have a multitude of elements that go into it. As previously discussed, some of us women like being in control and teasing the man. By that same token, sometimes we want to be taken advantage of and have no control. This, of course, is all part of the fantasy. It does in no manner condone sexual assault or rape, although rape fantasies are very common with women.

This is a hard one to explain to men, who would think a woman wouldn’t want to go through with such a volatile circumstance. But believe it or not, many of us get wet thinking of a man pinning us down and entering our bodies with great force. Rape fantasies is definitely a topic that should be discussed with your partner before hand.

Overall, what is important is to remember that sometimes women want to be the one in control, and sometimes we want to be ravaged and dominated by a strong man who can put us in our place.

In Your Face

One fantasy not many women admit to having is anything having to do with her face. A person’s face is one of the most private of areas, and it doesn’t take much to violate that space. Still, some women enjoy having things done to their faces sexually that they may not care to admit because of the degrading connotations that go along with it. Those are: facials, being lightly slapped in the face with the man’s tool, teabagging, rimming, and deepthroating, to name a few. I’m not going to get to deep in specifics right now, ’cause I’m starting to get turned on and really need to get back to work, but trust me when I say that if you are a good man, and we love you, and we trust you, and we’re sexually compatible….chances are we’ll do whatever you want us to do and more. Us women have just as dirty a mind as you boys do.

Please keep in mind that no one is exactly the same, and that some women may feel differently with regards to some of the above circumstances. Also, while some of these fantasies can be carried out in real life, please keep in mind that these are just fantasies. These are elements meant to be combined to make fantasies that can make sex more interesting. Do not take them to lightly at heart. A rape fantasy is just a fantasy, and your girlfriend wanting to involve another partner (albeit male or female) in no way signifies her being bored or dissatisfied with you.

Again, I know this was a pretty lengthy post, but I hope you guys read it and that I was able to help you out. I didn’t want to feed you the same BS as every other site out there. Good luck out there, and if there’s ever anything you want to know more of, hit me up at mmartinez@flisted.com!

XOXO

Melysa

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