Pick Up In the Flesh

So I give you a lesson on Tuesday, a random tip on Wednesday, and something real on Thursday. What does it all mean and what do I want you to do with it?

Well, first, the lesson is the most important part. These Thursday examples are just so you can see how I am out there with you. I am not a man-whore (anymore) and I don’t go party every night (anymore), but I have enough experiences to put one or two fresh ones up here.

Now, you might ask, where do I get the balls to think that I can teach other guys about this stuff?

Answer: Because I used to be in those hopeful shoes, spent weeks constantly learning the same stuff over and over, spent the time to incorporate it into my life, mold it into my personality, and now, after almost a year, I have reached and surpassed almost every goal I set for myself along the way.

College was really easy to be a man-whore and party every night, but when I first got out, I had trouble getting what I wanted from girls. I was so comfortable around those girls that I knew well in college that it was easy to have great game, without even knowing it. After a few months of struggling and sleeping alone, except for a couple of nights, I started reading some of this PUA stuff.

I knew at first that it was not for me, but little did I know that my will to get some was stronger than my will to go my own way. After reading all of the new Pick Up material out there, I thought, “This stuff is either all the same, or it’s common sense.” That was the turning point.

I started going out with a little swagger (confidence), because I realized anyone could do it and I saw some success. I still never gave in to acting any differently or really trying. I can’t say I was wasting my time, but I definitely was in the Big Leagues with a wiffle ball bat.

Observing girls, practicing on girls, and molding your game to meet its potential is not lame, corny, or for desperate guys. I was no Rico-Suave before I began to change my approaches, conversation techniques, or closings, but now I can be more selective. Also, it has saved me a lot of money. How you ask? What used to take me 2 nights of 3-4 hours at the bar, now takes me 1 night of an hour or less. You do the math.

The final result is the picture above. That was my goal, although that’s not one of my girls. I would never out a girl, but I will say that it feels good to see a satisfied, naked woman laying in your bed.