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Pick-up Tip of the Day: Confidence
Would you be able to go up to the girls pictured above and speak to them, as if they were not classmates, friends, or not overwhelmingly gorgeous?
Last week, we spoke about the first facet of becoming a pick-up artist, motivation. This is where it begins, but confidence is the most important.
The confidence to approach girls without shirking or being afraid is all you need. You do not have to be Rico-suave or act like a god. You simply have to be able to approach and speak. Not that hard, huh?
Your confidence does not have to be there from the beginning. It is something you have to build. Starting next week, I will be showing you how to build confidence from scratch.
Once you have motivation and confidence, you tie them together, reinforce, and create synergy, by molding your mindset. This will be next week’s tip and the final introduction post, before we go on to specifics.
Good luck guys.
I’m not so much worried about approaching a fine looking woman. I’m not worried about being turned down. My main problem is being accepted. Then it’s a whole new ball game. I’m not the most exciting guy in town but I’m not ugly and I’m pretty smart and have a good personality. I’m just afraid I won’t be able to keep her interest.
i wouldn’t not be intimidated by these high maintenance almost average looking chicks. Just let me take a moment to check out the menu. ok the girl on the far left has the innocent and sweet look but I bet she’s lookin for a quick rebound or, even better, is the least experienced. I’m thinking the girl in the middle is the older chick in the group and judging from the nice little detail on her headlights, I’d say shes a flaunter and could careless if a guy admires her for her mind (obvious boob job btw). Goldies/cougars/milf’s just wanna have a good time and someone who will make them feel/look younger once more. They talk the most too and always lie about their age even when it’s obviously not true. I hate that sh*t it’s so insulting.
Now contestant numb 3 is what I call easy pickins. Not that she’s bad looking, it just that I get the impression that she more consciously aware of a certain flaw (perhaps her teeth or nose) she feels she may have. Comfort her and it’s game. I even bet she reads her horoscope religiously too (talk talk). Scary thing is these girls get emotionally attached fast so it’s best not to lead them on. Of course actually being there may change my perception a bit but I’m usually right 75% of the time.
@ danyy
you don’t have to marry her bro. I think youre taking yourself way to seriously. Youre thinking all wrong. what if she can’t keep you interested? Hmm… ?
What is exactly ment by not talking to them like classmates or friends? I think that’s the problem I have a lot of times
Danny,
Keeping a girl’s interest for a night and keeping a girl’s interest for days after are two different things, so I’m going to tell you how what I was taught and what has been successful for me.
B&C is right about both things. You can make observations and then approach them with tidbits about those observations. Never open up with something as corny as this, but after approaching, you could say, “You look like the sweet and spicy one.” (Corny, but has worked for me over and over. It really singles one out, which is crucial.)
Observance is first and confidence is next. You shouldn’t be worried about keeping her interest, because how can you keep your focus on her, if you are worried? It’s like a quarterback, just sit in the pocket, relax, and wait for the right receiver to get open.
I also like the way B&C asks if she can’t keep you interested. Your focus should be 40% on her, 30% on her friends, 20% on your conversation, and 10% on yourself. YOU are important in the mix and you should stay interested in HER, not just in picking her up. That is how you will keep her interest. Girls are not fortresses, and they don’t have the same standards, so as long as you keep conversation going (non-awkward pauses are ok), then you’ve got it.
NOTE: Be prepared to be shot down. You can’t keep every girl’s interest and some battles are lost causes. Going up to 10 girls in a night and using this stuff right, though = 99% success.
I hope that answers the question.
Rickster,
You have the same problem that I used to have then! I used to get little vixens back home all the time with the “you wanna leave” line, but unless I’ve broken the friend tape, it’s no good.
A simple, “you look so sexy tonight” does the trick. You will know if she wants it or not after that. Sometimes, she is just waiting for a sign like that and will just jump your bone for saying it.
God, I’m glad those “just friends” days are WAY behind me. Stick in there fellas. It’ll happen.
man, I could actually learn some things here… who would’ve thought…
So how many Bacardi and Cokes does one need to get confidence up….?? 8-10?
How does one prepare to be shot down?
MAN DOWN….CODE 10!….