Hump Wednesdays: How to Stimulate the G-Spot

There’s the Yeti, the Loch Ness Monster, and then there’s the G-spot.  Up until recently, all of these were thought to be myths until scientists in Italy were finally able to find the elusive G-spot. And while most people have heard of the G-spot, sadly not many people know what to do with it.  

Every man who wishes to be a wonderful lover should learn how to locate this erogenous zone.  A G-spot orgasm is said to be more intense than a clitoral orgasm, and is can lead to stronger, longer, and even multiple, orgasms. Stimulation of the G-spot can give a woman orgasms so intense, women have been known to be unable to walk after having one and even pass out and fall asleep immediately after having sex.  

As a woman who appreciates the release and pleasure that an orgasm brings, I thought I’d share with you some techniques on how to stimulate the G-spot and not only how to make a woman’s toes curl, but how to make sure she’ll be calling you for more.

How to Stimulate the G-spot

Background

Having been called the “sacred spot” for over 1,000 years by tantric sex practitioners, this erogenous zone earned its name from German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg, who hypothesized of the mythical zone in his 1950 paper, “The Role of Urethra in Female Orgasm.” (I’ll bet you a beer and a round of pool that dude was very popular with the ladies.)

So, what is the G-spot? The G-spot is a zone comprised of sensitive, spongy tissue located about 2 inches inside the vagina, on the topside towards the stomach. This sexually sensitive area, which scientists recently discovered not all women have, can range from the size of a pea to about one inch in diameter. When a woman grows more sexually aroused, the G-spot becomes engorged with blood, grows in size, and becomes more sensitive to the touch.

Fingering

When using your fingers to stimulate the G-spot, it is best if the female lies on her back, preferably on a comfortable surface such as a bed.  For those who have shorter fingers, it is recommended the woman pull her knees to her chest in order to shorten her vaginal depth.  

Next, slowly insert your index and middle fingers into her vagina, about 2 inches in, curling your them as if to form the shape of a hook, the tips facing up towards her stomach. You should feel a slightly ribbed, spongy area.  This is her G-spot.  If you are having trouble finding it, don’t be afraid to ask your partner for some guidance. Trust me, she wants you to find it as much as you do.

Once you have located it, stimulate it using a “come hither” motion, sometimes referred to as  ”the running man” because of the motion one makes with your fingers.  The G-spot does not respond to touch, so much as it responds to pressure, so be sure to press firmly against it for maximum pleasure.

However, it should be noted that women have different pleasure levels, so be sure to read what her body is telling you, and when in doubt ask.  While stimulating her “sacred spot,” it is advisable to gently massage her clitoris with your thumb or tongue. This way she’ll have both G-spot and clitoral stimulation, certain to give her an intense orgasm aimed to please.

Intercourse

There are multiple positions you can do during intercourse guaranteed to make your woman scream with pleasure from having a G-spot orgasm.  

First, there is the ever-popular doggie-style position.  In order for this position to work effectively, the woman must be on her hands and knees, arching her back slightly, locking her elbows and knees in place, and making sure to not put her face on the bed, as it changes the desired angle of penetration.  

The man should enter her from behind, making sure their is full penetration, so that his penis is rubbing directly up against her G-spot. Make sure to not pull out too much when thrusting, as this can lead to air going into the vagina, which can be painful for the woman. Apply pressure to the G-spot by thrusting inside her, pulling her hip in downward motion towards yours.

Secondly, there’s the classic “woman-on-top” position, and my personal orgasm favorite.  There are three different variations to this position. The first is with the woman facing you, so that your penis hooks perfectly into her vagina, hitting her G-spot.  This position is great because the woman can guide the motions to suit her level of intensity and thrust accordingly.  

In order to better control the angle of which the penis hits the G-spot, the woman can either place her hands and knees to the side of the man’s torso, almost as if leaning forward, using his shoulders to thrust herself forward, and thus him deeper, into him.  She also has the option of sitting on his penis, her feet planted at each side of his torso, her hands placed behind her back in between his legs, as if leaning back, the pressure weighing down on his penis.

Lastly, the woman can sit on top, but facing backwards, so that her back is facing him and she faces his feet. Personally, I find this position to be pretty painful if the man is well endowed, but not all women have the same threshold for pain, and thus others might find this position to be more sexually arousing.

 

Adult Toys

If interested in adding another dimension to your love making, considering the addition of adult toys to stimulate the G-spot.  While not everyone feels comfortable, and some might feel threatened, by the addition of toys, they can come in handy and allow both the male and female to alternate participation in stimulating her pleasure zone.  

When using dildos or vibrators for the purpose of G-spot stimulation, it is important to pick one that is curved and not straight.  A curved toy is guaranteed to fit the contour of the female form and thus put pressure against the G-spot as needed, without hurting her or making her uncomfortable.  

Be sure to thrust the toy against her G-spot, apply sufficient pressure. Do not move around in a circle or thrust in and out extensively, otherwise it will not be pleasurable, on account of the shape of the toy.  There are a variety of dildos and vibrators on the market that target the G-spot specifically, so as to guarantee maximum pleasure.  

Whether you choose to pleasure your female partner by stimulating the G-spot with your fingers, penis, or an adult toy, always remember to talk to your partner and make sure that both of you are enjoying yourselves!