Snatch Talk Tuesday with Tracy Lynne
June 17th, 2008
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Hey friends, welcome back for another tuesday of pure Snatch Talk. Tomorrow I will be on The Covino and Rich show on Maxim radio at 5pm ET on behalf of F-listed. So if you want to call in and ask any questions or give an F-Listed shout out that would be great!
Today’s topic comes from an F-listed reader, here’s his question:
Hey TL-
Why is it that women always go for men with money? What about the nice guys like me?
Robert
It is a common misconception that women go after successful men for the money. Of course we all like nice things..who doesn’t? But behind every successful man is a trait that is so sexy, so unbelievably attractive and rare that it makes our vaginas quiver at first glance- AMBITION!
Finding men like this now-a-days is close to impossible. Now that men and women share financial responsibility it seems to me that there has been an out break of laziness. We also live in a society that has such a sense of entitlement- everybody wants all of the nicest things for the least amount of work.
As a woman let me tell you something. There is nothing more unattractive then a man who complains about his situation and doesn’t take action to change it.
Women who date men for money are definitely shallow…I won’t deny that. I’m only offering the suggestion that once in a while…it’s much more than the money that drives chicks wild. If a man is broke but he is actively pursuing an amazing dream that is still much more sexy to me then a man who’s content with being mediocre.
With success comes another trait women love which is CONFIDENCE. Being your best self attracts other amazing people.
I urge everyone who’s complaining about not meeting the right person or being in a bad relationship to start looking at yourself and being the best possible you, you can be and I guarantee everything else will fall in to place.
I hope that helped Robert!
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tracy, i couldn’t have said it better myself! I really hope that men read your column (it’s ok if you have to read it multiple times in order to understand/grasp the knowledge that tracy is droppin’, no one’s looking). I can’t tell you how attractive it is for a man to have AMBITION and how unattractivve it is for a man to be broke and not shut the fuck up about it!!!
Glad to have you on my side Nikki G. it’s also nice to have some female love. Thanks for reading.
Muah!!!
Tracy, I appreciate the message you are getting across here, and you are absolutely correct about the generally lazy population of Men in this country today.
However, my perspective on an “ambitious” man with money is; He’s not going to have time to focus on YOU, while he’s out there achieving his “dreams.” At what point do you become another “thing” he’s achieved, and crossed off his list?
I guess it all depends on what you are looking for in a significant other, but I personally don’t want someone so hell bent on a career, they are prepared to cast me aside when it becomes “inconvenient” for them, you know?
Darin I TOTALLY agree…there really has to be a happy medium and that’s a challenge with someone extremely career driven. There are definitely extreme people out there. I’m just saying it’s very attractive for a man to be mature, grounded and pursuing goals. I am the kind of woman that enjoys the simple things like cooking and eating dinner together….so I can appreciate your point of view.
Thanks for reading.