Snatch Talk Thursday with Tracy Lynne
June 12th, 2008
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It’s that time again…Happy Snatch Talk Thursday!
Today’s topic was requested by a fellow F-Lister…here goes!
Dear TL,
Im back once again, to bug you. HAHAHA. So my inquiring mind would like to know what your thoughts are when it comes to bisexual women. For a man, it is a dream.LOL. For women, it can be a variety of things, beautiful, disgusting, wrong, right, sexy, and some choose to not participate, but not be offended by it. So being with a bisexual woman comes a lot of things that a non-bisexual woman does not bring. Your girl looking at other girls, checking them out. Your girl talking to other girls for sexual interests. The two of you are out for a night on the town, and you both meet an attractive woman, who is not really trying to pick up or be picked up on. Well we all know how alcohol can play with our minds. So with a few drinks under the belts, and a lil conversation, the two start to make out with you there. What kind of feelings are rushing through that man at that time? I can tell you that, it is sometimes Happiness, it is sometimes Jealousy, and it is sometimes just plain Bravado. (Yea, thats MY girl making out with another HOT girl). There are a lot of mixed emotions that can mess with a guy, but its all in his sexual nature on how he will act or react. I have no problems with it, until it starts to become an overshadow of me. When it seems as if I am not there with my girl you know, but other than that I am GREAT with it. LOL. It is a mans fantasy to be involved and well that is not a bad idea either! HAHA…. well my question is, from a Womans standpoint….. Should a man be involved with a bi-sexual woman if he is a jealous person, or should he believe that because its a woman and she can’t give her what you can, then there is no reason to worry??? Let me know what you
think.
I think this is a very interesting question…so here is my opinion.
There are two types of girls- Bi-sexual and Bi-curious.
I can honestly say that I think most women are Bi-curious. I don’t know many women who haven’t fantasized once or twice about being with another woman or gotten turned on watching girl on girl porn. Most of us have at least tried kissing another woman whether or not we enjoyed it.
These girls are a man’s dream if they choose to act out their fantasies, because more then likely they will allow they’re boyfriend to either watch or be involved and make it a joint sexual experience.
Now…if a girl says she’s Bi-sexual this probably means she likes to enjoy women with or without you. This could lead to a very emotionally draining and confusing relationship. Watch one episode of Tila Tequila for God’s Sake!!!!
Dating a girl who’s Bi-sexual can definitely add a boost to your sex life. Plus- you’ll be dating a woman who can appreciate other women without being jealous, which is very hard to find…but you definitely have to be mature enough for the ride.
In my opinion dating a woman simply to fulfill a sexual fantasy is not the basis for anything long term. So be careful what you wish for. Try satisfying your girl on girl hunger with a little dirty talk or if your girls game fool around to some lesbian porn.
If you do decide to have a long term relationship with someone who’s confused about their sexual orientation enjoy the ride and be careful because it may lead to heartbreak.
Have any of you ever had a successful or unsuccessful relationship with someone bi-sexual? Ever partaken in a crazy girl on girl experience? Let me know in the comments section!
As always send all topic ideas or questions to asktracy@flisted.com…nothing’s off limits! (Except those naked pictures I keep getting of you! You know who you are…) See you tuesday!











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Thank you T.L. for your opinion. I guess I would have to categorize my girl in the Bi-Curious section. She is not one to do it with or without me, but rather its just a turn on for her. She won’t go all the way and be bi-sexual, so I guess thats a good thing for me. I get to see and sometimes enjoy as well, but in the end… she will always be coming back to me! I am happy, that she is not a full fledged bi-sexual woman. Then that would be her having her cake and eating it too, well where would my piece of cake be? LOL… so I am good where I am at… Thanks TL, always appreciate the female insight without getting an OMG YOU DID NOT JUST ASK ME THAT, type of reaction.. HAHA
Take care!
R.B.
Hmm…Another great juicy topic! Good stuff Tracy!
I agree with you I also think that most women are at least Bi-curious for whatever reason, but are YOU among those “most women who are Bi-curious?” Ever thought about being with another woman and kiss the lips under her navel? Please Say…..YES!!
When I hear about Bi-sexual women I’m thinking threesome. I’m 23 and I’ve never been involved with a Bi-sexual woman and I’ve never had a threesome before. I’ve been close a couple of times but I haven’t been that lucky…yet. It’s really a mans fantasy but when/if I get this experience it’s not going to be with someone I have strong feelings for. I don’t want to share the woman I love with another woman or man for that matter…NO WAY. A friend of mine dated a bisexual woman a few years ago, she actually prefered women and she enjoyed threesomes. I remember his ego got a major boost after that lol. But their relationship was based on sex. It was more like an open relationship…they could see other people.
I’m very close to a certain woman. We’ve never dated but you can say we’ve been “friends with benefits” for a little more than a year now. This is the type of situation where I can see myself in a threesome. But unfortunately she’s not Bi-sexual nor is she Bi-curious, trust me we have talked about this several times.
I’m bi-sexual and my boyfriend loves it. I don’t mind if he talks to other girls. We even have threesomes from time to time. I’m not by any means confused though. I love penis. I like pussy. It’s fun to play around but the next day I always can’t wait for her to go. I’m in love with my man and I can appreciate a beautiful woman. I like having my cake and eating it too. LoL.
did you go to letterman with artie?
Thank you guys for your input…obviously this is not a topic I know too much about from personal experience so it’s nice to hear everyone else’s point of view. Im so happy to chat with you twice a week and Im looking forward to tuesday
xoxo
Tracy