Snatch Talk Tuesday with Tracy Lynne

Hello friends….Happy Snatch Talk Tuesday to all of you!!!!

I hope you had an amazing weekend…and hopefully a relaxing one, while your martini crazed girlfriends ran off to watch the opening weekend of “Sex and the City.”

I had a wedding to go to, so I was trying to do the Macarena without a tit popping out. Ahhh- but I digress.

I continue to receive emails asking my advice about your problems and as always I promise to give my honest opinion..so here goes!

When it comes to sexual relations. Do women get tired of the same old thing too? It does not seem to be that way, as most women only want to have sex in the ONE and ONLY position they are familiar with (“missionary” if you didn’t catch that hehe). On top of that, most women do not like to be on top, I DONT KNOW WHY, but to me that is the best position for a women. You have complete control, and can do what you like. I understand that it may be some work being on top, as I am usually in that position doing all the work. LOL. I also understand that sometimes a woman wants to make love and be made love to, I completely get that and I don’t have a problem with handling the task, but I just think that if there were to be a more variety of positions then it would be more interesting. A man is always going to be a man, we all know that. Our sexual hunger is so great, that it sometimes gets men into trouble because they can not control their urges. That I believe is also the reason as to why some men get bored with their sex life, as they want different things and the people they are with are just not doing it for them. Sexual hunger, by all means, is NO reason to cheat. As life continues to pass, our sexual hunger will begin to fade, until it is completely gone when we are all older. So sex isnt going to keep a relationship together, so why should it be a reason to break it apart?

-Rich Bitch

First of all…if your sex lasts half as long as your questions-I commend you.

This is a pretty loaded question so I’m going to hit the two main points. First off-positions. I completely agree that having great sex is about trying new things…but new things also require a great deal of confidence for a woman. Take being on top for example- the woman is basically putting her naked body right in front of your face, while being on bottom is much more private and covered. When my man thinks I look sexy I feel sexy and I am much more likely to let loose in bed. I would suggest buying your girlfriend sexy lingerie and maybe some sex dice or a fun game that will take the pressure off of her. Remember to tell her how amazing she looks from every angle!

Now as far as the last part of your question. I think that no matter how old we are intimacy will always play a role in our relationships, and learning what makes your partner happy at the beginning will lead to a long happy life together. Communication is key! Cheating is never acceptable, especially when you never gave your partner a chance to fix what was bothering you.

When a women gives me her number how can I tell if she’s truly interested or

just being nice? Is there some way I can test her when she hands me her

number? I’m tired of wasting my time getting a number, leaving a message

and then not getting a call back…why not just tell me “no” from the

beginning?

- Vernon

I don’t blame you Vernon, being lead on is no fun. Here are some things to look for before you even ask for her number.

In a group setting is she paying the most attention to you? If you’re at a club or in a group setting and she’s giving attention to another man she’s probably not interested.

Is she talking about other men? This is another red flag…this puts you in the “friends” category.

She’s avoiding intimate settings and she hasn’t touched you or showed sexy body language. When a woman is interested she will definitely let you know. Some woman aren’t aggressive enough to actually touch you…but twirling hair, licking lips and checking her appearance regularly are big indications she’s in to you.

And last but not least, is she playing up other girls? If she’s talking about how hot her friend is that’s a big hint she’s not in to you.

If none of these red flags pop up and she still doesn’t call you it means one of three things. She either lead you on, has a boyfriend or she wants to play a serious game of cat and mouse. You’ll have to figure that out yourself….and just my advice…if you’re using clubs or bars to get numbers your luck will probably continue…try to find some sober women in daylight.

Thank you so much for your questions! Remember you can ask me anything, anytime! Just email me at asktracy@flisted.com! See you thursday!